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ADHD, Adult
Attention Deficit
Hyperactivity Disorder

Affection Needs

Alternative Dispute Resolution

Anger Management

Anxiety Attacks or Always Anxious

Alcohol Abuse

Avoidance Behavior

Balancing a Career



Can't Think Straight

Can't Get Anything Done

Career Coaching

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Character Coaching

Chat Services/

Children of Alcoholics

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College Major Coaching

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Confidence, Lack it
Build it


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Controlling Finances

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Dispute Resolution

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Identify Passions
and Goals

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Improve Relationships

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Mad at God

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Speakers on Counseling

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Telephone Consultation/

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Trust, Developing

UnGodly Thoughts

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Women's Issues/




Suggested Reading
"We Counsel-God Heals"

The following are books that we at Counseling the Lord's Way have read and
found useful and offer them to you as a suggestion for future reading.


12 Stupid things that mess up recovery (Allen Berger) (buy)
Beyond Codependency (Melody Beattie) (buy)
Codependent No More (Melody Beattie) (buy)
Living with your Husband's Secret Wars (Marsha Means) (buy)
Playing it By Heart. Taking care of yourself no matter what (Melody Beattie) (buy)

Health and Life Issues

Breaking the Cycle of Divorce: How your marriage can succeed even if your parent's didn't (John Trent) (buy)
Created in God's Image (Richard and Phyllis Arno)
Cries of the Heart (Ravi Zacharias) (buy)
Connecting. Healing ourselves and our relationships (Larry Crabb) (buy)
Fearless Living (Rhonda Britten) (buy)
Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy (David D. Burns) (buy)
Freedom from Shame of the Past (Mike Fehlauer) (buy)
Getting Through the Tough Stuff. It's always something (Charles Swindoll) (buy)
How to Win over depression (Tim LeHaye) (buy)
Lessons for Living.  Simple solutions for Life's Problems  (Daniel H. Johnston) (buy)
Lose it For Life (Stephen Arterburn) (buy)
Life after Loss. A practical guide to renewing your life after experiencing a major loss (Bob Deits) (buy)
Margin: Restoring Emotional, Physical, Financial and Time Reserves to Overloaded Lives (Richard Swenson) (buy)
Men in Midlife Crisis  (Jim Conway) (buy)
One Month to Live: Thirty Days to a No-regrets life (Kerry Shook) (buy)
Recovering from Losses in Life (H. Normal Wright) (buy)
Rules of Life: A personal code for Living a Better, Happier, More Successful Live (Richard Templar) (buy)
Shattered Dreams: God's unexpected pathway to Joy (Larry Crabb) (buy)
Self Talk, Soul Talk: What to say when you talk to yourself (Jennifer Rothschild) (buy)
The Now Habit: A Strategic Program for overcoming procrastination and enjoying guilt-free play  ( Neil Fiore) (buy)
The One Minute Entrepreneur (Ken Blanchard) (buy)
The Power of Focus (Jack Canfield) (buy)
Thin Again. A biblical approach to food, eating and weight management  (Arthur W. Halliday) (buy)
Unmasking Male Depression (Archibald Hart) (buy)
What you childhood memories say about you (Kevin Leman) (buy)
Where is God when Bad Things Happen (Luis Palau) (buy)
Why Smart People do dumb things: Lessons form the science of Behavioral Economics (Mortimer Feinberg) (buy)

Healthy Sexuality

52 Ways to have fun, fantastic sex. A guidebook for Married Couples (Joyce Penner) (buy)
A celebration of Sex (Douglas Rosenau) (buy)
A celebration of Sex after 50 (Douglas Rosenau
All night long. How to make love to a man over 50 (Barbara Keesling) (buy)

Getting your sex life off to a great start.  A guide for Engaged and Newlywed Couples (Cliff and Joyce Penner) (buy)
How and when to tell your kids about Sex. A Lifelong approach to Shaping your Child's Sexual character (Stan Jones) (buy)
Intimate Issues. Conversations Woman to Woman (Linda Dillow & Lorraine Pintus) (buy)
Restoring the Pleasure (Cliff and Joyce Penner) (buy)
Secrets of Eve: Understanding the Mystery of Female Sexualty (Archibald Hart, Catherine Hart Weber, Debra L. Taylor) (buy)
Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage (Kevin Leman)  (buy)
Soul Virgins: Redefining Single Sexuality (Douglas Rosenau, Michael Todd Wilson) (buy)
Talking to your Kids about sex (Mark Laaser) (buy)
The Gift of Sex:  A guide to Sexual Fulfillment (Cliff and Joyce Penner) (buy)
The Sexual Man. Masculinity without guilt  (Dr. Archibald Hart) (buy)
The Way to Love your Wife: Creating greater love and passion in the bedroom (Cliff and Joyce Penner) (buy)
When Two become One (Christopher and Rachel McCluskey) (buy)

Marriage and Relationships

21 Days to a great marriage. A Grownup Approach to Couplehood (Henry Cloud) (buy)
Before a Bad Goodbye. Turn your life around (Tim Clinton) (buy)
Boundaries in Marriage (Henry Cloud and John Townsend) (buy)
Every Man's Marriage (Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker (buy)
Healing the Hurt in Your Marriage, Beyond discouragement, anger and resentment to forgiveness (Dr Gary & Barbara Rosberg) (buy)
How to Say it for Couples (Dr. Paul Coleman) (buy)
Language of Love (Gary Smalley) (buy)
Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus (John Gray) (buy)
Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti (Bill and Pam Farrel) (buy)
Now your speaking my language. Honest Communication and Deeper Intimacy for a stronger Marriage (Gary Chapman) (buy)
Romancing your wife. A little effort can spice up your marriage (Debra White Smith) (buy)
Spit and Polish for Husbands. Becoming your wife's Knight in Shinning Armor (Bryan Davis) (buy)
The DNA of Relationships (Gary Smalley) (buy)
The DNA of Relationships for Couples (Greg Smalley) (buy)
The Five Love Languages (Gary Chapman) (buy)
The Seven Desires of Every Heart (Mark Laaser) (buy)

Sexual Addictions, Sexual Temptation, Recovery from Adultry

An Affair of the Mind (Laurie Hall) (buy)
Every Heart Restored: A wife's guide to healing in the wake of a Husband's Sexual Sin (Stephen Arterburn) (buy)
Every Man's Battle: Winning the War of Sexual Temptation (Stephen Arterburn) (buy)
Every Man, God's Man: Every Man's guide to ...Courageous Faith and Daily Integrity (Stephen Arterburn) (buy)
Facing the Shadow: Starting Sexual and Relationship Recovery (Patrick Carnes) (buy)
God's Outrageous Claims: Discover what they mean for you (Lee Stroebel) (buy)
Healing Wounds of Sexual Addiction (Mark Laaser) (buy)
I surrender all. Rebuilding a marriage broken by pornography (Clay Crosse) (buy)
In The Shadow of the Net (Patrick Carnes) (buy)
L.I.F.E. Guide for Men (Mark Lasser) (buy)
Man's Secret Wars (Patrick Means) (buy)
No Stones: Women Redeemed from Sexual Shame (Marnie Ferree) (buy)
Out of the Shadows (Patrick Carnes) (buy)
Shattered Vows. Hope and Healing for Women who have been Sexually Betrayed (Debra Laaser) (buy)
The Game Plan. The Man's 30 day strategy for attaining sexual integrity (Joe Dallas) (buy)
The Thorn in the Flesh (R.T. Kendall) (buy)
The Secret Seductress: Breaking the Destructive Cycly of Pornography (Mark Lasser, Michael Christian) (buy)
The Secret Sin: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction (Mark Lasser) (buy)
The Secrets Men Keep: How Men make life and love tougher than it has to be (Stephen Arterburn) (buy)
Torn Asunder. Recovering from and Extramarital Affair (Dave Carder) (buy)

Spiritual and Personal Growth

3 Seconds. The Power of Thinking Twice (Les Parrott) (buy)
3:16 The numbers of Hope (Max Lucado) (buy)
9 Things you simply must do (Henry Cloud) (buy)
Boundaries Face to Face: How to have difficult conversations you've been avoiding (Henry Cloud) (buy)
Boundaries: When to say Yes, How to Say No to take control of your Life (Henry Cloud) (buy)
Captivating: Unveiling the mystery of a woman's soul (John Eldredge) (buy)
Caring for People God's Way: Personal and Emotional Issues, Addictions, Grief and Trauma (Tim Clinton) (buy)
Cure for the Common Life. Living in your Sweet Spot  (Max Lucado) (buy)
Driven to eternity. Making your life count today & forever (John Bevere) (buy)
Epic. The story that God is telling and the role that is yours to play (John Eldredge) (buy)
Every day deserves a chance: Wake up to the Gift of 24 Hours (Max Lucado) (buy)
Fearless Living (Rhonda Britten) (buy)
Healing is a Choice: 10 Decisions that will Transform your Life and 10 Lies that can prevent you from making them (Stephen Arterburn) (buy)
How People Grow: What the Bible reveals about Personal Growth (Henry Cloud) (buy)
How to Pray (Ronnie Floyd) (buy)
It's Not My Fault: The No-Excuse Plan for overcoming Life's Obstacles (Henry Cloud) (buy)
Jesus, The greatest Therapist who ever lived  (Mark W. Baker)  (buy)
Just Like Jesus (Max Lucado) (buy)
Just Walk Across the Room. Simple Steps to Pointing People to Faith (Bill Hybels) (buy)
Landmines in the Path of the Believer. Among the Hidden Dangers (Charles Stanely) (buy)
Lead Like Jesus: Lessons from the greatest leadership role model of all times (Ken Blanchard) (buy)
Safe People:  How to find a relationships that are good for you and avoid those that aren't (Henry Cloud) (buy)
Self Talk, Soul Talk: What to say when you talk to yourself (Jennifer Rothschild) (buy)
Shattered Dreams: God's unexpected pathway to Joy (Larry Crabb) (buy)
Soul Talk: The Language God Longs for Us to Speak (Larry Crabb) (buy)
The Bait of Satan: Living free from the deadly trap of offense  (John Bevere) (buy)
The Cry for Spritual Fathers and Mothers (Larry Kreider) (buy)
The End of Reason (Ravi Zacharias) (buy)
The Grand Weaver (Ravi Zacharias) (buy)
The North Face of God (Ken Gire) (buy)
The Papa Prayer: The Prayer You've Got to Pray (Larry Crabb) (buy)
The Search for Significance: Seeing your True Worth through God's Eyes (Robert S. McGee) (buy)
The Secret Things of God: Unlocking the Treasures Reserved for You (Henry Cloud) (buy)
The Seven Desires of Every Heart (Mark Lasser) (buy)
The Way of the Wild Heart (John Eldredge) (buy)
Waking the Dead (John Eldredge) (buy)
Wild at Heart (John Eldredge) (buy)
Why you do the things you do: The secret to Healthy Relationships (Tim Clinton) (buy)



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